To explain why so many small business marketing campaigns fail, I’ll use a simple dating analogy.  I’m 32 so most of my good friends are now married, engaged, or in serious relationships — except for Jack and Irwin who are very much single. (Note that I’m using fake names to protect the innocent here.)

I’m told by my female friends that Jack and Irwin are attractive guys, so looks are not the primary issue in finding a significant other.  Plus, both hold steady, well-paying, respectable jobs.  Oh, and neither live with their parents.  So why are they still single?

Well, for Irwin it’s simple.  He’s single because he’s not aggressive enough.  He’s the type of guy who will go out on a Saturday night, hang out with the guys, and if no girl makes the first move, then he’s going home alone that night.  In other words, he doesn’t promote himself.

Jack is the opposite of Irwin when it comes to promoting himself.  In fact, Jack rarely goes home alone at night.  That’s not the problem at all.  The problem with Jack is he doesn’t ever build lasting relationships.  So he’ll date plenty of girls, but none of them end up working out.

You can probably see where I’m going with this…


The 2 Elements of Marketing

In my experience, I’ve found that most small businesses act more like my friend Jack than Irwin.  That means, you probably invest heavily in promoting your business, but you’re failing to build lasting relationships with your prospects and customers.

Am I right?  Are you putting as much effort into building strong relationships as running promotions?  If you’re not, then you’ll end up a serial dater like Jack, churning through new prospects and customers, month after month.

To be successful, your marketing must include both promotional and relationship-building elements.  So let’s take a look at what this means in practice.


3 Tools to Start & Strengthen Your Relationships

There’s a disproportionate amount of information available about driving website traffic, converting traffic, and running promotions versus starting and building relationships with your prospects and customers. 

And I believe that is one of the main reasons why so many small business marketing campaigns fail: Not enough time and energy is devoted to using online marketing tools to build relationships.

So I’ll give you 3 tools to get you started.

1. Email Marketing

Email marketing is my absolute favorite tool to start and strengthen relationships with our prospects and customers.  If you already receive the Main Street Marketing Tips newsletter, then you know how much we invest in email marketing each week.  Yes, we do promote and drive sales via email, but the vast majority of our email marketing is relationship-building.  If it wasn’t, then our subscribers would eventually tune us out and our sales would plummet.

If you’re not currently using email marketing, then this is a huge hole in your online marketing.  Many prospects are not ready to make a purchase when they first visit your website, but they would be happy to give you their email address.  This is like getting a phone number when you first meet someone.  It’s not a date yet, but you now have contact info to follow up.

2. Content Marketing

The second tool to build relationships is content marketing.  Think of content marketing like a bunch of friends who are always talking you up to anyone attractive they meet.  Articles, videos, webinars, and podcasts are examples of content you can create that will form a positive first impression with any new prospect.

With this in mind, be careful about outsourcing content creation.  Everything you publish, including articles for search engine optimization (SEO), can and will impact your relationship with prospects and customers. So, make sure everything published in your name is up to your standards.

3. Social Media

The final tool I’ll discuss is social media. Too many businesses try (and fail) to use social media as a promotional tool, rather than the relationship-building tool that it’s designed for.  Social media websites are places to be social.  Think of it like going to a bar on Saturday night.  You wouldn’t scream out to everyone that you’re single looking for a date, right?  Obviously not.  Social media requires a big investment in relationship marketing combined with the occasional, tasteful and timely promotion.

Of those three tools, I recommend every small business get started with email marketing first.  Then, once you have your system to email new prospects, nurture old prospects, and strengthen your bond with customers, then move on to one of the other tools above.