Marketing Lessons from Raising a One Year Old

/Marketing Lessons from Raising a One Year Old

My wife, Erin, and I celebrated our daughter Violet’s first birthday yesterday.  We joked that the celebration was really for us surviving a whole year with an infant.  If you have kids, then you know exactly what I mean.  That first year wasn’t pretty, but boy was it worth it!

In 365 days, Violet transformed from what I endearingly call her helpless, alien-looking newborn days, to now a walking, babbling, playful, and extraordinarily cute baby girl (see proof below).

Violet's First Birthday

Looking back on the past year, I find there are many similarities between raising a one year old and launching new marketing campaigns.  Both require a significant investment of time.  Both require realistic expectations about results to avoid frustration.  And there’s no question both are well worth the investment.  Recognizing these similarities will ensure you create a more realistic marketing plan and should help you push through the inevitable rough patches in the coming year.

 

Invest the Time Required

Everyone knows babies need a LOT of attention.  And even when they sleep, most new parents find it hard to relax.  Then, as the infant grows, she starts to sleep through the night, hold her own bottle, and even play by herself.  I found the first 3 months were the most stressful and required the most investment of time, but then each subsequent month became easier and easier.

The same is true when launching a new marketing campaign.  Let’s use Google AdWords as an example.  When you set up a new AdWords campaign, then you need to realize the first few months are going to be the most stressful and time consuming.  There’s going to be a lot of trial and error to figure out what works for your particular “baby.”  Sure, there are commonalities among top performing ad campaigns across different industries and offers, just like every infant needs sleep, clean diapers, and food. But the specifics, like the best time of the day to run your ads or the best ad copy and bid for a particular keywords, will not be known until you and your baby have spent some quality time together.

The key takeaway here is to realize that the first 3 months of a new marketing campaign are going to be tough.  This is true whether you’re implementing in-house or outsourcing to a marketing company.  It’s going to be stressful and you need to commit the time required to learn what works in your particular market.

As a result, you also need to be realistic about how many new campaigns you can launch this coming year.  I can’t imagine having another newborn right now.  I’m simply not ready for the time commitment.  With that in mind, take a look at your marketing plan for the new year and make sure you’re not spreading yourself too thin by launching too many campaigns.  It’s always better to get one campaign working before moving on to a second one.  Otherwise you could just end up babysitting a bunch of failed campaigns.

 

Set Realistic Expectations

I believe the biggest cause of frustration with online marketing is unrealistic expectations.  We now live in a world where we all want instant gratification.  I frequently hear stories about businesses that tried Google AdWords, SEO, social media, email marketing, or some other tactic and it didn’t work.  When I pry into the details I learn that the business “tried” for a month or two.  That’s the equivalent of getting upset because your baby is not walking by 6 months old!

To be clear, I’m not saying you should continue to invest in a losing marketing campaign.  However, as a general rule of thumb, I find that most businesses give up too quickly because they don’t have realistic expectations about how long it will take to see significant results.

For example, last month we sold several dozen seats to our Google Analytics training by sending a couple emails to our in-house email list.  Clearly, email marketing works.  I could go on and on about all the benefits of email marketing, but I don’t need to.  The sales speak for themselves.  However, what’s not so obvious is that we worked very hard over the past 3 years to build our email database, form a strong relationship and continuously provide value to our subscribers.  There’s no way we could have sold several dozen seats if we had just started using email marketing in the past 6 – 12 months.  That’s about as realistic as Violet reading one of her books tonight.

The key takeaway here is to be more realistic with your sales projections from online marketing.  SEO, social media, and email marketing are all long term marketing tactics.  AdWords advertising can generate sales within hours, but typically it will take months to dial in your advertising so that you’re consistently generating a positive return.  The most successful businesses use a long term portfolio approach to marketing, similar to savvy investors.

 

Focus On Incremental Improvements

OK, up to this point I realize I haven’t painted a very rosy picture.   Maybe I’m a little cranky from so many sleepless nights with Violet this past year. :)

On a serious note, I do believe businesses need to hear this, and then let it really sink in, if they are going to succeed in the new year.  Competition is fierce, and I’m sorry to say that the days of “set-it-and-forget-it” online marketing campaigns are over.  The businesses that take a long-term approach and implement pig-headed discipline will come out on top.

I’ll never forget the day in Central Park when Violet started walking on her own for the first time.  It took almost a year to go from rolling over, to crawling, to walking.  Every day she improved just a little bit more, until finally it all clicked, and she toddled away from me while uncontrollably laughing.  That’s the approach we all need to take with our marketing.  Don’t expect overnight miracles. Focus on incremental improvements in your online marketing campaigns throughout the next 12 months.

 

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7 Comments

  1. Lucy Brown January 3, 2014 at 10:01 am - Reply

    This newsletter issue is so wise and the advice is placed in a context that everyone knows, even if not first-hand: the first year of a child’s life. Congratulations, Phil, for a really good letter. It hit home for me and it’s something I’ll remember.

    • Phil Frost January 3, 2014 at 1:39 pm - Reply

      Thanks Lucy! I really appreciate your feedback. :)

  2. Andrew Prior January 4, 2014 at 12:03 am - Reply

    Great piece and spot on for both the business world and the child raising world. Good stuff.

    • Phil Frost January 4, 2014 at 7:41 am - Reply

      Thanks Andrew! I’m heading out now to go for a run in the park. Shoot me an email if you want to meet up soon or if you’re running any races this winter.

  3. Terri Scheffler January 5, 2014 at 7:32 am - Reply

    I love the seminars, it’s just technical enough, without needing to be an IT expert to benefit from it.

    And your daughter is too cute! I enjoy seeing a proud papa!

    • Phil Frost January 5, 2014 at 10:58 am - Reply

      Thanks for the feedback Terri! And Violet says thanks as well :)

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